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Tuesday, October 14, 2014
Purpose driven people
live longer....
Tuesday, 10-14-2014
In a ShareCare message from the Real
Age email on 5 ways to live longer the number one recommendation was to live a
purpose driven life.
This not the first time I've seen
this. As we'll see, people who do, have
more to live for so they make more of an effort to stay alive. And, they are also more effective and valued
people so their efforts to achieve and stay alive work better.
Here's the key quote from the real
age email:
"Want to live longer? Then
you better have a really good idea of what you're living for.
In a study of older adults, those
who lived a goal-driven life were 57 percent less likely to die during the
5-year study period -- compared with those who didn't have much direction or
purpose.
How a Purpose Protects
Are you making plans for the
future? Is there something that you're actively trying to achieve? Does your
life have meaning? A resounding yes to these questions could mean you get more
time on earth to accomplish things.
Having a purpose in life was so
helpful in a study that it even appeared to improve the longevity of people
with depression, disabilities, chronic medical conditions, or financial
difficulties."
1.
It often takes focused effort or extra effort to achieve things or to do
the things that keep you healthy and able to work to achieve things.
So, if you want very much to
contribute to a purpose you care about and want to help achieve, you make that
effort.
Then you live longer; you overcome
your problems well enough to work on the purpose you care about; and you do
make at least some of the contributions you want to make.
2.
Long ago the famous management consultant, Peter Drucker, found that the
most effective people were those who worked on the achieving the task that
would enable them to make a contribution to the highest and best purposes of
the group or company they were in.
One nurse he tells of made a whole
hospital get almost all its patients get well faster and sooner. How?
They emulated her focus on contribution.
The way she did it came to be
called Nurse Bryan’s rule. She did all
the normal, expected, and assigned things for her patients. But she then asked,
“Are we doing all we can for this patient?”
If she came up with a way to do
more that would help that patient feel better or recover better, she then added
that on.
Patients she attended stayed less time and went home sooner; got
well more effectively, and had fewer complications than those on other floors.
Soon most nurses in the hospital
came to adopt what was called Nurse Bryan’s rule and did as she did.
In business, he gives examples of
CEO’s who picked the few areas where they could contribute to the success of
the business, and then made that kind of effort to achieve them.
Their companies did well.
By and large that got them respect
and support and help from the people in their company too.
That kind of focus on contribution
is a skill people can use on their own issues to enable them to keep working on
their purpose.
3.
An article I read more recently by James Altucher, focused on how to
have a good life you did best if in addition to getting yourself the money you
need, you also focused on mastery and meaning.
Having a purpose you care about
and work to achieve adds meaning; and in making a special effort to achieve it
you often do so by attaining mastery in the skills needed.
4.
How can you find a purpose you care about if you don’t yet have one?
Start with what you are interest
in; what you do well now; what you are
curious about; or helping people who have a problem you have had or someone you
care about has had.
Ask questions of yourself: Who has this problem? How can I use my skill or what I’m finding
out to help people who need it or want it?
Then work to make good things
happen in that area!
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